What’s the best way to get over someone you love?
Last Updated: 22.06.2025 05:53

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
Why didn’t Obito confront Kakashi after he witnessed him kill Rin?
Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
What is your daily motivation and does it work?
Because only you LOVED?
You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
Because you were just unlucky in love?
Because you are in sorrow without them?
Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
Because it hurts that they are not with you?
Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
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Or because she doesn’t love you back?
Or because they’re happy without you.
But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
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Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
~KSR
Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
How does a 45-year-old man get a girlfriend?
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.